With more than a decade of professional experience and a career built on real-life cross-cultural experiences, Vīvien Pölzer has established herself as one of the leading references in intercultural relationships today. An international matchmaker, dating coach, and mentor in female personal development, she grounds her work in over 30 years of life experience in Germany, where she studied, built her family, and deepened her understanding of emotional bonds between people from different cultural backgrounds.
Born in Conselheiro Lafaiete, Minas Gerais, Vīvien left Brazil at a young age. Throughout her journey, she pursued education in areas such as human behavior, personal image, spirituality, and integrative therapies. This multidisciplinary foundation, combined with practical experience, led to the creation of her own methodology, now applied in mentorship programs, personalized guidance, and carefully structured international matchmaking processes.
Far from superficial approaches, her work is based on emotional responsibility, conscious communication, and a deep understanding of cultural differences. Through her selective international agency, Vīvien conducts detailed assessments, establishes safety criteria, and closely supports her clients, prioritizing genuine compatibility, emotional maturity, and affective autonomy.
She is also recognized for her critical stance against the excessive romanticization of intercultural relationships. Vīvien openly warns women about the emotional, psychological, and practical risks involved in these types of relationships. In her content, mentorship programs, and books, she addresses topics such as romance scams, emotional dependency, dangerous idealizations, power imbalances, and women’s safety, always with clarity and responsibility.
Her visibility on social media grew organically, driven by Brazilian women seeking guidance on how to build relationships with foreign men. This dialogue positioned Vīvien as a respected voice in self-esteem, emotional choices, and cross-cultural relationships.
As an author who combines personal experience with intercultural reflection, Vīvien considers writing an essential part of her mission. Her books promote a mature and ethical view of love, addressing female identity, belonging, and emotional awareness, grounded in real-life experience rather than romantic fantasy.
She is now preparing for a new milestone in her career: her return to Brazil for the official launch, in São Paulo, of her book Love Without Borders – The Art of Loving Across Cultures. The work deepens reflections on love, emotional maturity, and the challenges of intercultural relationships, emphasizing that loving beyond borders requires clarity, emotional preparedness, and discernment.
The launch event will feature an afternoon book signing, marking a direct encounter between the author and her Brazilian readers.
Vīvien Pölzer dedicates her work to emotional empowerment and the construction of conscious relationships, based on the premise that healthy bonds begin with self-knowledge and emotional responsibility.
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